Hello women. Let's discuss another subject. Everybody wish to marry. All born into this world are divinely fashioned to desire marriage. Those hindering people's good marriage are violating divinely ordained institution, any curse the aggrieved issue against them will stand. Once you begin to reach the right age, you naturally begin to desire the company of the opposite sex. This is normal, only ensure you stay within proper boundaries. Since not all of us are the same in terms of profession and visions for our individual lives, diverse marriages must, as a result, have their unique peculiarities. Let me break it down. 

Simple example. We have different types of means of transportation : bicycle, cars, buses, trucks, air transports, train, etc. You do not manage them the same way. We use different electronic gadgets in our homes; you do not manage them the same way. If you treat an aeroplane like a bicycle (just pick and go), you will crash very fast. Marriage is the same. You must first define the kind of marriage you desire, know what to do to get it and go for it. Let's be accurate. Here are three types of marriage you may choose from. 

1. Marriage to agents of darkness out to destroy. Yes, many fall victim to this kind of marriage. Never think it is easy to escape it. Salvation in JESUS is not even enough guarantee that you will escape it. Many true believers in CHRIST and genuine Pastors have been caught without them suspecting a thing. Many of you my readers are still heading for that kind of marriage. This is not a curse. The reason is that, unless you are ready to fight in prayers, instant obedience to GOD'S voice and ready to MAKE ANY SACRIFICE HE DEMANDS OF YOU, you will end up in this kind of marriage. The most unfortunate thing is, you might never realise that you were captured until you die and arrive in hell. Majority refuse to make the sacrifices HE demands of them and they end up being caught. The reason why many of us miss GOD'S escape routes is because HE hardly tells us why HE ask us to do certain things. Those things HE ask us to do through HIS word, messages like this, personal instructions to us, etc, often look insignificant, but could mark the difference between good or bad marriage, heaven and hell. Examples: "wait a while before you marry", "give that money, clothes, food, etc, to that person....", "go and serve me in sweat, labour and suffering...", "start sending your tithe to that particular man of GOD ", "go and serve in that Church or ministry that is still trying to pick up ", "you have a job or means of income, marry that true Pastor just starting and finance him", and many more. Obedience to any of these instructions are capable of delivering you from marriages that will destroy you. Considering the peculiarity of this present generation, any one that cannot make sacrifices for GOD that will reach GOD will likely miss good marriage. Do these two things if you are not yet married. 

A. Pause here, go on your knees and pray this prayer. Do not proceed unless you do this. 

LORD, I WANT GOOD MARRIAGE, SHOW ME WHAT TO DO AND HELP ME TO DO IT. 

B. Skip tomorrow's breakfast and lunch as fasting and pray that prayer again before you eat dinner. 

DO NOT IGNORE THOSE TWO INSTRUCTIONS. 

2. Marriage to those not called into the true work of GOD. If they are not agents of darkness, but genuine people with good intentions, you are fortunate. Just ensure both of you take time to pray together concerning having your own kids before you start having kids. This is another area of battle also as strong as getting a good partner. Most people hardly pay attention to this area. Once they marry, they start having kids without any prayers, fasting or sacrifices unto GOD. Never forget this. Before you both go near each other after marriage, (sex and conception before marriage will open your womb and homes wide for infiltration of strange babies) consecrate some days of fasting and prayers to block unwanted kids from gaining access into your home as your kids. Both of you must join in this assignment. The failure of one partner in this area might jeopardise the entire exercise. In the course of praying or after, GOD might request you do certain sacrificial things for HIM; BELOVED, IN YOUR OWN INTEREST, OBEY FAST. 

3. Marriage to truly called servants of GOD. This kind of marriage is absolutely different from other kinds of marriages and certain laws must be obeyed if both of you will not be destroyed. You cannot handle this marriage the way you handle other marriages. The reasons are these. The call and the work of GOD is involved. You cannot run your home like other homes, other homes are not ministry homes. This marriage is unique and special to GOD. The wives of true ministers of the Gospel must do the following, else they will destroy both them and their Pastor husbands. 

A. Must have a very good relationship with GOD. 

B. Must be ready to fully support any instruction GOD gives their husbands, no matter how sacrificial, in the interest of both of you and your children.

C. Must live an impeccably holy life. No lying or other sins. If you violate this rule, evil spirits will easily gain access into you and use you to destroy your husband, after which they will destroy your children. 

D. Must carefully watch their relationships even with relatives and in-laws. Why ? Agents of darkness will make you a prime target for friendship. If they get you, they will use you against your husband. You must also pray hard against evil gifts reaching both of you. If you collect it, destruction will enter your lives and home. 

E. Be very sure that GOD has also called you into full-time ministry before you sit doing full-time ministry work with your husband, otherwise you will be destroyed. If you are not called, leave ministry work for your husband (simply do all you can do as a partner to help and participate), go work and put your sacrifices into the work of GOD. If you do not do this, you will become vulnerable to spiritual arrows. If they catch you, they will use you against your husband and your children. Never forget this, any ministry family (Pastor, wife and children) must ensure each person contribute to GOD'S work as often as they can, from their own income and labour. This is a major form of individual and family spiritual security in addition to prayers and GOD'S word. 

F. Must ensure your husband always obey GOD and not your own desires and wish. This is in the best interest of your family. Both of you must have family altar where you jointly keep seeking GOD for direction. A ministry home must not be run on the contrary advice of friends, parents or relatives but ONLY on divine direction. This is how many ministers wives destroyed themselves and their husbands. They forced their Pastor spouse to disobey GOD based on other people's opinions or their own rebellion. 

G. As you say "yes" to a true man of GOD, you must realise you are also saying "yes" to the call of GOD on his life. You must be ready to fully cooperate with what GOD wants for HIM lest you destroy him.

H. If both of you diligently do the above, ministry breakthrough will eventually be yours. 

Having understood the three types of marriage mentioned in my previous message "DIFFERENT TYPES OF MARRIAGE AND THEIR PECULIARITIES", for me, marriage to a true man of GOD, if GOD lead you into it, is the best. Those GOD lead into such marriages are few, not many can cope with it. Do not think GOD does not know what HE is doing. You can never be as wise as GOD. GOD knows there are rich men around and those in different professions before telling you to go marry a true man of GOD. HE must know something you do not know. Let me tell you some of the reasons HE will lead a true man of GOD to you. 

1. GOD might have seen the destruction heading your way in life through marriage to other men (you can't always  see the future). Examples: barrenness, sudden death, broken marriage, sickness and disease, infidelity, polygamy, spiritual captivity of all types, heartbreaks, separation, diverse wickedness, wayward children, wicked in-laws, loads of spiritual battles ahead of you, disasters in your own family, future evil arrows, shame and disgrace, domestic violence, etc. But because you are a born-again sister and a true child of GOD, HE decided to lead you to a true man of GOD for marriage to escape all these. Yes, it might be tough initially and demanding on you, trust me, best to stick with GOD. HE simply showed you mercy. Obey HIM and forget all other options. GOD is never wicked. HIS marriage choice for you is always in your own best interest that you might not understand in this lifetime. When you get to heaven, you will forever thank HIM, for you will then see events clearly. I write from some personal experience. Some time GOD speaks to some sisters about me, HE alerts me ahead, revealing certain things to me that my anointing could handle in their lives and future, thus HIS directing them to me.  I was not instructed to tell them. They were to obey first. Unfortunately, they disobeyed. The enemy responsible for those things also orchestrating their disobedience. A truth many of you might never hear is this, many true men of GOD will hardly reveal this out of love for their divinely arranged spouse; they fought serious battles to deliver their wives from various things. I know Pastors who stood through thick and thin to save their wives from various things. Some laboured in days of fastings with prayers because of their wives. Some fought marine attacks bitterly out to destroy their wives. Some fought hard in prayers for their in-laws, etc. Many of these things you will never hear from them. Some tolerated many things other men would have ran from if they had married them. This is why GOD led them to true ministers of GOD to marry. I use to wonder, considering some cases I knew, what would have befallen those sisters if they had not married a true fire man of GOD ? Their lives would have been a mess. Sisters, if GOD ask you to marry a true man of GOD, appreciate HIM for the mercy; just ensure you both obey all the instructions i gave in the previous message "DIFFERENT TYPES OF MARRIAGE AND THEIR PECULIARITIES " so as not to sabotage the purpose of GOD for bringing you together. One major thing the enemy does, if they know GOD arranged a true man of GOD for you to marry so as to set you free from various things even you might not be aware of; is to use you to destroy him. Never allow that. Read my messages carefully and obey, to escape that. 

2. A true man of GOD is a spiritual asset for you and also a spiritual covering. By virtue of the anointing on his life, certain arrows will miss you. Do not make the mistake of treating him like any other common husband. No beloved, he is more than that. You will see many things about him others might not know, never let that make you lose your respect for him and his anointing. If you know what to do, that man alone can be your key to breakthrough in life. Sow into his life, not as a wife, but as a spiritual daughter. Ensure he constantly places his hand on you and speaks blessings into your life. Sister, you have in your house what many climb mountain tops to find. You have in your house what many travel to other states and countries to find. You have in your house a man ordained and anointed by GOD. He might not be wealthy, but if you know how to minister to his anointing, you will catch your own breakthrough through him. Just ensure you help him keep that fire in your own best interest. He must never need to look elsewhere for anything he needs from his wife. If you are not into full-time ministry with him, work or start a business and constantly sow into his life from your income. Do that with honour so that the anointing can respond to you. You will be surprised at how you will prosper beyond your widest imagination. Give to others too.  Unfortunately, some of our women get too familiar with their Pastor spouse and miss out. 

3. With you married to a true man of GOD, as long as you do not allow the enemy capture him, you have a good chance of ending in heaven. Some other marriages might send you to hell, if your spouse is the ungodly type. He might lead you astray. A true man of GOD will do all he can to lead his family to CHRIST and to heaven. 

4. You will be free from polygamy and infidelity, provided your husband man of GOD is not captured by evil forces. This is why both of you must diligently follow all i wrote in my previous message. True men of GOD don't sleep around and they stick to only one wife.

5. Your children will have a godly example at home.

6. Beloved, you have a great chance for peace of mind, compared to other marriages. 

I am not saying all true men of GOD are perfect, no beloved. You will still see things you need to pray about in his life. Some might still have characters that need to be dealt with, etc. But, compared to other men, you have the advantage of challenging heaven to fix anything you see wrong with him since GOD gave you to him. Trust me, HE will answer. That might be one of the reasons GOD asked you to marry him. There are also true Pastors, that if not for their on fire for CHRIST wives, their lives too would have been a mess. Those wives prayed hard and laboured over them to make them pull through certain personal flaws. Unfortunately, some sisters are not like that, instead of them to rise up in real spiritual warfare for their men, they simply looked on until they were captured and destroyed. Ensuring that true man of GOD end well might be one of your ministries in his life. Play it well. 

Good day women globally. There are two groups of women on earth. Firstly, the agents of darkness out to destroy and who are all among true women, I do not write to this group. This first group also have collaborators amongst men, their fellow agents, they both joined hands to come after me. Secondly are genuine women simply out to live their normal lives; marry, bear kids and be at peace with everyone. This second group, my reader, are the ones I write to. If you are among the second group, watch out for the first group, they are out to take you down, unfortunately, many have been captured already. Well, I pray the mercy of GOD that is writing this through me will make these messages of mine, including this letter, save the few true women we might still have standing. Take your time to study it.

Certain mindsets, have over generations destroyed women and made them susceptible to manipulation. Women who did not succumb to these mindsets had a chance to escape. They achieved great things in life. In the divine order, men and women were created. In the context of the home, the man is the head. The headship concept does not make the woman an insignificant factor. Never. Read your Bible very well and see the amazing feats women performed in scriptures. A large portion of the finances of JESUS in the Bible were from women. Same for Prophets Elijah and Elisha. Those women were 'industrialists ' of their days who had means to sustain and finance those true servants of GOD.  Two examples will suffice. The woman who sustained Elisha and received diverse miracles as a result. Read her story. She had house, land, field and other properties.

2 Kings 8:1-6. KJV
Now Elisha had said to the woman whose son he had restored to life, Arise and go with your household and sojourn wherever you can, for the Lord has called for a famine, and moreover, it will come upon the land for seven years. So the woman arose and did as the man of God had said. She went with her household and sojourned in the land of the Philistines seven years. At the end of the seven years the woman returned from the land of the Philistines, and she went to appeal to the king for her house and land. The king talked with Gehazi, the servant of the man of God, saying, Tell me all the great things Elisha has done. And as Gehazi was telling the king how [Elisha] had restored the dead to life, behold, the woman whose son he had restored to life appealed to the king for her house and land. And Gehazi said, My lord O king, this is the woman, and this is her son whom Elisha brought back to life. When the king asked the woman, she told him. So the king appointed to her a certain officer, saying, Restore all that was hers, and all the fruits of the field since the day that she left the land even until now.

What of Dorcas.

The Acts 9:36-40. KJV
Now there was at Joppa a certain disciple named Tabitha, which by interpretation is called Dorcas: this woman was full of good works and almsdeeds which she did. And it came to pass in those days, that she was sick, and died: whom when they had washed, they laid her in an upper chamber. And forasmuch as Lydda was nigh to Joppa, and the disciples had heard that Peter was there, they sent unto him two men, desiring him that he would not delay to come to them. Then Peter arose and went with them. When he was come, they brought him into the upper chamber: and all the widows stood by him weeping, and shewing the coats and garments which Dorcas made, while she was with them. But Peter put them all forth, and kneeled down, and prayed; and turning him to the body said, Tabitha, arise. And she opened her eyes: and when she saw Peter, she sat up.

Dorcas was busy giving alms and clothing people, you must have means to do that. Go through the book of Proverbs and see the description of true womanhood. Just an excerpt.

Proverbs 31:10-17,25. Living Bible Version.
[10]If you can find a truly good wife, she is worth more than precious gems!
[11]Her husband can trust her, and she will richly satisfy his needs.
[12]She will not hinder him but help him all her life.
[13]She finds wool and flax and busily spins it.
[14]She buys imported foods brought by ship from distant ports.
[15]She gets up before dawn to prepare breakfast for her household and plans the day’s work for her servant girls.
[16]She goes out to inspect a field and buys it; with her own hands she plants a vineyard.
[17]She is energetic, a hard worker,
[25]She is a woman of strength and dignity and has no fear of old age.

Having read the above, all women reading me; throw away that nonsense that says "Your prosperity is dependent on a man". GOD'S promise of prosperity is for both men and women. If you both obey the laws of prosperity, you will both prosper. There is no law that says you cannot be richer than your husband yet respect and honour him. Being rich is not a license for violating the divine rule of the headship of the home. No matter your prosperity, always maintain that order. Women, your mindset is your problem. This is why the first thing you check before saying "yes" to a man is his pocket. This is why 90% of you always make the wrong choice. When GOD spoke to some sisters about me and some devils told them that I had no food to eat and can't take care of them; due to that they disobeyed GOD (so unfortunate, those stories were deliberately cooked up since the 90s to drive women away from me while the same agents of darkness who spread the stories kept coming after me in secret for sexual immorality), I wondered why such stories will scare away a true woman who knows her right in CHRIST and who is hardworking. Were they not planning to have their own means of income ? Assuming you marry a man with means and suddenly he loses his job or things go bad for him momentarily; how will you survive if your faith and only means of sustenance is your man ? If in this present world,  you do not have a plan of self finance as a woman joined to what your husband earn, you will most likely make a poor choice in marriage and have problems. Present world economy confirms this.

Do not misunderstand me, a man must be up and doing and able to provide for his household. A woman too must have a clear vision for her life, be hardworking and make her own money. That is scriptures. This will help her to make informed choice in marriage and not disobey GOD because she sees challenges in her husband's life. Let me show you two different types of men GOD can give you and the purpose for such.

1. A man able to finance both of you. There are times GOD can lead you to such men, their means of income will be clean. This is not an excuse for laziness. Keep working and keep making your own money no matter how comfortable the man is.

2. Men who are just trying to stand up. The reason might be because he needs your help to help him rise in life. GOD knows with you by his side, he will rise. If you disobey GOD, even you might not rise in life. Why ? Some destinies are complementary. Their shining is in partnership. The spark is in your coming together. GOD knowing this and also knowing you are still struggling, lead you to such a man. When you both come together, pull your little resources together, plan together and help one another; the spark will be ignited and both of you will eventually prosper. A Pastor had vision and anointing, but no money. GOD sent him a working woman as a wife. Fortunately, she obeyed GOD. She got a loan from work and gave it to the husband for Church establishment. They both joined hands to grow the ministry. Today, their story is a testimony. GOD knew they must come together for them to rise together. The seed she sowed also translated into many blessings for her. You get the point, GOD is wiser than us all, NEVER QUESTION HIS CHOICE. This applies in business and other professions. Some couples make good business partners. What if they had not married each other ?

THE MAN YOU MUST NOT MARRY. This is a man that is not ready to make sacrifices for GOD. He is not ready to pray and seek GOD'S face. He cannot give and is not willing to change. Such a man is heading nowhere unless he does evil to survive, in which case he will destroy both of you. No matter the poor state of any man, if he is ready to live holy, pray, seek GOD'S face for help and always willing to make sacrifices for GOD; his story will eventually change for better.

My dear women, you are not an insignificant part of creation. Change your mindset about marriage; you are going there to feed and to be fed. Whatever happens in the love intimacy does not change this. You are a wife, not a prostitute. Prostitutes are paid for sex, not wives.  Prosperity from GOD is for all. Let your trust be in GOD and not in a man. That is the way to prosper. Raise your children with this mindset. Plan great life for both your sons and daughters. Never let your girls have the impression that their sustenance is in a man. Train them to be self sufficient with or without a man so that after you have departed this world, your mind will be at rest that both your sons and daughters are able to fend for themselves.

WOMEN,; RISE UP, FAST, PRAY, GIVE, WORK AND GO FOR IT ! BE A REAL WOMAN. 

Once again, I write to girls who are genuine girls, not agents among girls. I have, in previous messages, specify the group I write to. If you are a genuine woman for peace and for good; settle down with this and diligently study it. I have been around for a while and have seen a few things. The foundation of a life came into force before it is born, this will design your path and experience in life. The blood that gave birth to you, the home and family you were born into and the kind of training you were raised by, all constitute your foundation in life. This will, to a great extent, determine the course of your life. Unfortunately, only GOD can remove many things in your foundation that will destroy you in life, only if you call on HIM. Pause here and pray now. 

LORD JESUS, TAKE OUT OF MY LIFE EVERYTHING IN MY FOUNDATION THAT WILL DESTROY ME IN LIFE. 

Furthermore, your childhood, preteen, teenage and early adulthood decisions can make or mar you for life. This is why I write this to girls, those just growing up into womanhood. The mistakes you make here can significantly alter your destiny in terrible manners, almost impossible to correct in future. Let's see some of these mistakes. 

1. IGNORANCE. Most of you hardly use your childhood to spiritually develop yourself. If you want to save your life and future, get busy spiritually. It is not difficult. My messages will help you. Explore all these pages. At certain stage in adulthood, you will not be able to study the way you would if you were still young. Old age is no more the time for prayer and fasting. What you ate into your spirit and soul while you were young is what will eventually sustain you in adulthood and old age. Don't be caught unprepared. One of the reasons I did not miss my way like many we grew up together have done, is that, I began to seek GOD in personal prayers, fastings, private vigils, study of GOD'S word and fellowship with GOD, right from my childhood. I moved beyond daddy and mummy and locked on to GOD on a one on one basis. My mother did not even know 90% of the spiritual exercises I was involved in. She goes to work early and come back late. I would have gone anywhere I wanted to and return home before she comes back from work. The first time she saw me ministering deliverance was in a picture I took at one of my school programmes that she came across. She was shocked. Once you can get this right from childhood, you stand a chance in life, anything else is a risk. Years ago, I knew a girl who I was led by the HOLY SPIRIT to raise in spiritual knowledge for her own good. I began to buy good Gospel books for her to address the areas in which I saw she was spiritually deficient. I was ready to take her through scriptures and told her so. Unfortunately, she listened to those that advised her wrongly, moved away from me and the enemy had his way. My beloved young woman, if you don't throw away the mindset of carefreeness and begin to seek GOD fast through JESUS CHRIST, you will most likely miss your way in life. You see, evil forces don't wait for you to grow up before they plot your destruction. They knew you from birth and already have their plans set against you. If you don't become a prayer warrior early enough in life, it might be too late when you reach matured womanhood and have made terrible mistakes. Nobody is too young for them to haunt, not even babies. The destruction many experience at 15, 18, 25, 30, 40, 50, etc....age, were actually set in motion against them right from birth. What if they had caught fire for GOD early in life, their story might have been different. In your own time and eternal interest, throw away that "I am still a child" mindset and go for GOD now, now, now, now, NOW.......! 

2. BAD FRIENDS AND TALKING TOO MUCH. Many girls are still too naive to know which friends to keep and which ones not to keep. They still can't figure out what to tell friends and what not to tell them. I will strongly advice you to hit the floor now and ask GOD to lead you in this issue. This singular mistake have destroyed many girls. Not all fellow girls you see or know mean well for you. Some can be specifically assigned to you to destroy you. Same for boys too. 

3. A LACK OF GIVING. Start giving to GOD early in life. Before you give, pray to GOD to lead you to where and who you give to and always obey HIM. This can activate GOD'S Mercy for your future. I started paying tithe from my high school pocket money, though very small. I later graduated to using almost all for tracts, handbills and sending money to other ministries. Nobody in my house knew what I was doing. 

4. NOT UNDERSTANDING THE LURE OF THE FEMININE BODY. You are growing into womanhood and no more a baby. Some girls make mistakes because they still see themselves like babies to be cuddled and carried about. They don't know their bodies are changing into womanhood, a strong attraction for both men and sexual predators. They still wear body revealing dresses like babies, still run about with boys and men just as if they are still babies. They even tell boys everything and changes happening to their bodies, just as they tell their mummies. Such girls are courting trouble big time. You will wake up the lust of dangerous men amongst good men against yourself, a volcano with unquenchable thirst. Such men will go to any length to have you or ravish your body. They might even go spiritual against you just to have you. This is how many girls were raped, demonised or spiritually turned to whores. I once visited a place where an 18yr old girl just entering puberty didn't know all these. She still leaves sensitive parts of her body open and jumps on boys and men as if she was still a baby, even to wrestling and rolling around with them as play. She started jumping at me too. I was matured, older and could handle it.  I greeted her happily, knowing she was naive. I then sat her down and educated her. I warned her to adjust else lustful boys or men will be affected and come after her. She appreciated me for the advice. Young girls, never do anything to stir up lust against yourself. Lust is a deadly fire that will do anything to have its way. Once you notice lust, take off. Wear clothes that goes below the knee. I strongly advice you stay away from these modern strange trousers and shorts deliberately designed to display and accentuate a woman's figure. Church dressing nosedived when marine forces entered the Church. Today, they are on the altar preaching and in the choir singing, even setting up 'Churches' and preaching just like us or better. Never copy every dressing you see in Church. Marine spirits are in Church too. 

5. TOO TRUSTING. Some are still too trusting and believe everything they hear or see. No life experience yet. Young woman, "I love you " does not always mean "love". Not all smile is a smile, not everyone appearing nice is good. If you don't start learning this early in life, you will fall victim of lies and deception. The best thing is to place everyone and all issues before GOD in prayers, always ask HIM to ensure you do not fall victim of deception. Stop here and pray now. 

LORD, DELIVER ME FROM ALL FORMS OF DECEPTION. ALWAYS GUIDE ME BY YOUR WISDOM. 

6. BAD ROLE MODEL. Young people are quite impressionable, they see anything or anyone that appeal to them, they want to be like them. They are not yet matured enough to differentiate between good and bad role models. Some boys sag because they see others do it. Some girls have been misled by those they looked up to, to teach and guide them; might be a class teacher, a Pastor's wife (there are many agents among Pastors wives), a neighbour, a school mother, a TV or radio personality, etc. One of the things that helped me at a young age was that my own role models were true servants of GOD whose works I read and studied. This singular error have destroyed many girls. Young women, you don't copy everything you see on TV or hear on radio. We hear school teachers initiating their students into witchcraft and marine kingdom. Some evil parents do too. We also have good role models. My advice is this, let JESUS and the Bible be your greatest role model. Let the HOLY SPIRIT be your best friend. Just speak to HIM as if HE is by your side. You don't need to feel HIM. HE is with you. Reject anything anyone tell you and any lifestyle contrary to the Bible. Don't copy most of the secular songs you watch or hear, they won't help you spiritually. I have some of my songs online too. Need someone to talk too, feel free to reach me. 

Let me stop here. When you read messages like this, you don't just read and go, you take them into prayers, one of the things that helped me in life; I take into prayers many things I read and ask that the good be part of my life and the bad removed from my life. Go on your knees now and do likewise. 

Adultery is a major problem in this world and has bred so much hatred, betrayal, separation, bastards, destruction of marriage, fights, deaths, heartbreak, etc. Adultery has killed many and sent multitude to hell. There are many reasons for this. Some were forced into marriages they did not like, some married out of pressure or greed. Distance and lack of love and satisfaction in marriage among many other reasons. All these have various ways to handle them.  Well, one of the things the Bible vehemently warns us against is Adultery. The destructions brought by adultery we see daily confirms what you are about to read.

Proverbs 6:23-33. AMP
For the commandment is a lamp, and the whole teaching [of the law] is light, and reproofs of discipline are the way of life, [Ps. 19:8; 119:105.] To keep you from the evil woman, from the flattery of the tongue of a loose woman. Lust not after her beauty in your heart, neither let her capture you with her eyelids. For on account of a harlot a man is brought to a piece of bread, and the adulteress stalks and snares [as with a hook] the precious life [of a man]. Can a man take fire in his bosom and his clothes not be burned? Can one go upon hot coals and his feet not be burned? So he who cohabits with his neighbor's wife [will be tortured with evil consequences and just retribution]; he who touches her shall not be innocent or go unpunished. Men do not despise a thief if he steals to satisfy himself when he is hungry; But if he is found out, he must restore seven times [what he stole]; he must give the whole substance of his house [if necessary–to meet his fine]. But whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks heart and understanding (moral principle and prudence); he who does it is destroying his own life. Wounds and disgrace will he get, and his reproach will not be wiped away.

Now, that is a serious one. Adultery can be caused by fleshly weakness, circumstances that arise, strong temptations or the handiwork of evil forces whose mission is to destroy marriages. This is why doing all you must do to marry right is very important. Better still, knowing how to keep your good marriage (if you have it) is also quite important. Above all, you must know the LORD JESUS CHRIST as your LORD and Saviour and walk with HIM in holiness, this will help you escape the temptations of adultery.

SALVATION IN JESUS
Go on your knees and do it now. Pray like this.

I acknowledge I am a sinner, GOD forgive me. Blood of JESUS cleanse me from my sins. I receive the sacrifice of JESUS on the cross and confess HIM as my LORD and Saviour. I believe and so I have confessed".

Having done that, go to the foundation class page and follow it through. Don't ignore this.

Now, let's zero in on my focus here, evil creatures of lust and sexual immorality who have no regard for marriage and must always have their way sexually with whoever they wish, not minding the damage it will do. They abound in our midst as both men and women and have, from generation to generation, being responsible for 80% of adultery and marriage break-ups. They snatch spouse with reckless abandon. Most of those sleeping with your spouse are either these evil persons or persons possessed by evil spirits. Some think only money is their motivation. Yes, money attracts them, but they are quite often driven by lust. Lust has no boundaries, therefore all marriages becomes target, poor or rich. They see you, they want you and they must have you, married or not. This is one major area of warfare married people must watch out for since multitude have fallen victim of their lust. Stories of their sexual escapades abound worldwide. We hear them daily. Our divorce courts are filled with their handiwork. They have many strategies to catch their prey.

1. Evil powers. They can place you under spell, charm you, capture your spirit, put evil spirits inside you and several other spiritual strategies they can use to catch you for sexual immorality. Many have killed their spouse, abandoned spouse and children, ran from home, wasted their resources on strange women, etc, under the influence of evil powers. They have spiritual remote control to turn you to their robot. They can also enforce generational curses to wreck your marriage and either snatch you or your spouse. The solution to these is Salvation in JESUS, prayers and a life of holiness. Sacrifices unto GOD will also help.

2. Seduction is also one of their strategies. Showing you nakedness and several other subtle sexual invitations through words and deeds can be acts of seduction. Flirting with you, though married, a sure sign. Flee ! Men who want married women can go out of their ways to spend money on the women so as to win their hearts. This is why every woman must be able to discern the difference between good gifts and gifts of lust. Some gifts are laced with evil powers, once you collect them, you are caught. Go on your knees here and pray against such gifts ever reaching you. Do not continue until you do that.

3. Relationship is a major strategy they use. Women most often fall for this trick. Some women are so stupid that they reveal their marital secrets to their friends. They keep all kinds of friends without discretion. Some even bring them into their matrimonial room. Any friend so desperate to get close to your spouse beyond what is reasonable is a suspect.  Beloved, these evil entities can deliberately befriend you so as to get close to your spouse for sex. If they are too inquisitive about your marital or courtship issues, beware. This is where girls are very naive. Your partner's gifts and love letters to you should be personal between the two of you. Some show their friends everything their partners do for them, stirring up envy and lust for their partners. Some can destroy your relationship or marriage just out of envy. If your partner is beautiful or handsome and has rejected many just to choose only you, beloved, you must guard him or her jealously. Those they rejected can gang up against both of you, even go spiritual. We have evil people among us. They can hide their envy from you and befriend you just to destroy your relationship or marriage and snatch your partner. Countless stories abound of friends who have snatched their friend's spouse. My dear women, stop being stupid. Your man was eye catching and you went for him. Do you think you are the only one who want him ? Other reasonable women might accept their luck and go their way, not these evil ones. If you are not wise and ready to do all you can do in a good and godly way to keep your man, they will destroy that relationship or marriage. They can make friends with you to get at him. Also, if your partner was chaste and disciplined as a single man or woman, he or she will be a major target of these strange men and women. They might also want to taste them or even steal their glories still in tact through sex. The following relationships or marriages are always a major target for these evil ones.

• Well to do partners.
• Handsome or beautiful partners.
• Chaste and disciplined partners.
• Genuinely born-again partners.
• True men and women of GOD.
• Those whose glories and destinies are still in tact.
• Partners just touching breakthrough.
• Partners with good name and reputation.
• Caring and loving partners.
• Generous partners.
• Partners who are romantic and can sexually please their partners.
• Partners who are gorgeous and always dress well.
• Partners absolutely faithful to their spouse. They don't sleep around, their bodies are only for their spouse.
• Partners with a strong sense of dignity.
• Partners who are publicly honoured and well respected.
• Partners with connections in high places.
• Partners in key positions and offices and can grant favours.
• Partners who run the money of companies or organisations.

The above are among some of the men and women these evil ones all among us will do all they can to sleep with and steal from their partners in courtship or marriage. If you are a partner to any of such, guard them well. Ensure both of you know JESUS and are prayerful. Always join hands to make sacrifices unto GOD, ensure it reaches GOD. Don't make stupid mistakes and expose them to danger. Do not bring fully grown and matured women into your home as help for your spouse. Stay away from wayward friends, they will wreck your marriage or courtship. Anyone making enquiries about your romantic  intimacies with your spouse is a suspect. Why would a normal person ask such a question ? Such questions are asked most often to feed their lust. Only a fool will answer such questions.

4. They can employ several strategies of lies, scandals and setups to snatch your spouse. They play you out. Always confirm whatever you hear about your partner. Both of you should be straight and absolutely open to one another. Beware of advice. They can advice you out of your relationship. A sister already in a growing courtship of several months was told to start "posing" her partner so as not to appear cheap. The kind of unscriptural games they advice girls to play on men who show interest in them so as not to appear cheap. A wicked advice. All they wanted was to play her out and move in. Many have been played out of their good courtship and marriage. A sister was told to start being stubborn so the man would respect her. Another was told to disrespect the anointing on her man of GOD fiance. One was told to stop giving gifts to her born-again needy man that GOD sent her to to care for and give to him. The list of bad advice these evil ones give to separate partners so as to snatch them abound. Girls are always victims. Always naive.

5. They can go further by sending you alternative partner who appear better than your own. One of their games. They give you their own and snatch your own. The one they give you also in on the game.

6. They can use pressures on you. They can move your parents, siblings and colleagues to pressurise you out of your courtship or marriage and then snatch your good partner.

7. One of their most wicked operations is to use evil powers on you and make you either behave in such ways that will make your partner hate and reject you or make you walk out on your partner. Whichever way they play it, you move out and they move in. A win win scenario for these evil ones.

DO THIS
Beloved, I strongly advice you to take up dangerous prayers, unleashing deadly Psalms against these evil ones anytime you notice such games against your good relationship, courtship or marriage. Failure to do so and they succeed, it can alter your destiny with grave consequence. Mind you, they don't give a damn, they must sleep with you. Full stop. 

Start by reading this Psalm to GOD as a prayer for yourself. Psalms 103:11-18. Do this before proceeding.

1. Your character, you attract what you are and repel what you are not.

2. The level of your exposure, wisdom and understanding. Your body structure is not wisdom. Many with fine shape and figure have ended in bad marriage. Your desire to have good marriage is not wisdom, it is just a wish that might or might not come to pass depending on other factors. Your age is not wisdom even though it is expected to translate to it. Best you watch, listen, read and learn all you can about the subject of marriage before you venture into it. Some acquire wisdom after making the mistake. Best to acquire wisdom so as to avoid making the mistake. I advice you learn marriage first from the Bible and other good Gospel materials established on what the Bible says about marriage. Avoid worldly mindset about marriage, this has ruined many people.

3. Your mindset on life issues will also determine who you marry. If you are the greedy type, it will determine your choice. You must reason right to choose right. Let the Bible adjust your mindset on marriage.

4. Above all, and this is by far the most important point, how much of GOD'S Mercy you operate under determines who you marry. Best you sit and study this point diligently. Serious spiritual power play comes to force when it comes to marriage. This has pushed countless souls into marriages that destroyed them. Outside GOD'S Mercy, you cannot escape this. There are so many evil strategies evil forces can use to matchmake you. Many, they have captured. True Pastors children are no exception, they are often among the greatest casualty since they take many things for granted. Most true ministers children are married by agents of darkness. Best you believe this coming point. Consequences of spiritual laws violated called generational curses can also push you into bad marriage. You are too young to know what your parents, grandparents, etc, did to marry or how they have destroyed others through marriage. The consequences will come for you, though you are innocent. The only escape route for you is not just prayers, but the Mercy of GOD you can access to escape these consequences. The question is how do you access this Mercy. Follow the following steps.

A. Go on your knees now and surrender your life to JESUS as the first step to access this Mercy. Confess HIM as your LORD and Saviour. Go to the foundation class page and follow it through. Very important.

B. If you are still single, begin to fast and pray on your knees before GOD to show you Mercy from bad marriage coming for you. Just cry for Mercy on a regular basis. Only GOD can save you here, if not, you will gladly walk into a marriage that will destroy you without you suspecting a thing.

C. Ask GOD for specific directions on what you must do to get a good spouse. Get ready to do whatever HE says which will definitely be sacrificial. This is a major key to accessing Mercy. A brother saw a woman and liked her. He was already contemplating marrying her when GOD told him to do something sacrificial for HIM. This will make him deny himself for a while. He obeyed GOD. Immediately he did, he had a revelation. He saw himself falling into a ditch of death as he attempted marriage and he woke up. That marriage would have ended in his death. Events later confirmed it. The woman was a fake. Sacrifices unto GOD and prayers delivered him. He then decided to dig a little into his own family history. The discovery shocked him. His spiritualist grandfather was a specialist in using female agents to kill and destroy men. The curse was coming for him, but the Mercy of GOD he accessed through Salvation in JESUS, prayers, holy living and sacrifices unto GOD saved him. The question is this, what if he had not denied himself for GOD through sacrificial service unto HIM and sacrificial giving to GOD, the curse would have given him an assassin as a wife. Do you know how many such operations go on daily worldwide ? You cannot finish watching such real life documentaries available in videos online and on TV. I have watched so much to know that death often hide under relationship, courtship and marriage to kill and destroy. In many cases in some western countries when people die or get missing, their spouse are often the first suspect, the shocker is this, the Police are quite often right. This is so common in some specific Western countries, I wonder why. 60% of murders in those countries  are committed by boyfriends, girlfriends, fiance, fiancées, husbands or wives. Go online and research this. I have lost count of many such cases I have watched. Such marriage might be heading your way without you being aware. Were those murdered by their partners expecting it ? No. If they have received GOD'S Mercy, the death would have been averted.

Beloved, when it comes to making marital choice, I strongly advice you, if still single, to get ready to begin to serve GOD in a sacrificial way, including giving. This has the ability to deliver you from generational curse coming for you through marriage. Some sufferings and giving to GOD are for your own good. Throw away all the rules that tells you this is the way matchmaking work, you cannot dictate to GOD. Sister, GOD can ask you to be the person to start spending on the brother contrary to worldly dictate, if you love yourself, obey fast. That might be the sacrifice to deliver you from evil marriage. Only GOD knows how HE will matchmake you, best you learn to hear HIM fast. In your own best and eternal interest, stay far away from the advice of worldly friends and agents of darkness amongst brethren. Today they outnumber us by 10,000 to 1.

What are you waiting for, fall on your face before GOD and begin to cry to HIM for Mercy. 

THE WINNING WOMAN.

Blessed was not born into a rich home just like many other girls. We are all born the same way and all run the same race howbeit through diverse lanes. Some run the race of life from a wealthy background, howbeit as it appears, others run from an average family background. Many run from a poor background, while most run from a very poverty stricken background. No matter your background, the race of life is a must, while both the good and bad of life hit everyone, nobody is exempted, except those who are blessed and receive divine Mercy. Sudden death has no regard for your background. Bad marriage has no regard for your background. Sickness and disease have no regard for your background. Failure has no regard for your background. Several misfortunes of life have no regard for your background. Actually, from life experience, if you can, though not always easy; trace the family origin of poverty stricken people, you will discover they are generational offsprings of wealthy ancestors. The poverty they experience is called payback from the wickedness their ancestors did to get the wealth. That is just a deviation,  back to my story, a fiction just to teach some lessons.

The race of life is the same, the starting point is just the difference, what you get is determined by what you do as you run. Blessed ran well. Here is what she did.
1. She became born-again early in life.

2. She was fortunate to develop a very good personal relationship and fellowship with GOD.

3. She didn't miss her step in the area of choice of Church  or fellowship, she was led to a small ministry, truly under GOD, that demanded a lot of sacrificial service from her and other members. She served gladly.

4. Right from her preteen, she took from the little she had as pocket money and gave to GOD'S work, including true brethren in CHRIST. She always receive prayers from them.

5 An added bonus for her was that she could hear GOD and responded promptly to HIS instructions.

6. Though her parents didn't have much, she still proceeded to take from whatever comes to her once in a while to buy things for the poor. She shared from the little she had with other true brethren in CHRIST.

7. She was a very prayerful person and maintained a very high standard of holiness both in speech and conduct.

8. She studied her Bible regularly and also read good Gospel materials. She grew in the knowledge of GOD'S Word.

9. She went to school and was disciplined in her studies. She passed her exams.

10. As she grew and men began to show interest in her; she asked GOD to help her escape being caught and destroyed by bad men through relationship and marriage.

11. During one of her holidays, a missionary asked for a few believers to volunteer to go with him on a one month missionary trip to a rural place for evangelism and Church planting. There was no salary nor allowance attached. The volunteers will all contribute whatever they can afford into a common purse; from which they will all be sustained for the whole month. It was going to be a by faith outreach. Blessed volunteered.

12. They slept on mats, ate some meals without meat or fish, went on early evangelism without breakfast. It was one month of self denial and self sacrifice. They trekked both in the Sun and in the rain, at times on empty stomach. Blessed participated with great joy and did her best. They had converts and the new Church took off. She returned home with great joy.

13. While there, she became close to one of the men who also volunteered, another true believer in CHRIST. Their sacrifice to GOD brought them together. They both had the same love for GOD.

14. They started courting after both of them had prayed and were convinced their coming together was of GOD.

15. They later got married and continued their walk with GOD just as they started, strict obedience to GOD in all things.

16. Blessed had an average income job, but dedicated a certain portion of her income to GOD'S Work and the help of true servants of GOD who might be in need. Her husband's ministry her major priority. Her husband constantly prayed for her, other ministers she helped also kept blessing her. Poverty left her life.

17. One day, a business idea came to her, she prayed about it and GOD gave her the go ahead. Her husband supported her too.

18. Blessed went into the business and GOD prospered it, though spiritual warfare rose here and there, but with both prayers and sacrifices unto GOD, she overcame all.

19. Blessed rose in her career while her husband prospered in his ministry.

Blessed ran well and ended well. 

Hello sisters, this message is for you. Please take your time to understand this message, it will save you from many errors. We all know the female body is very different, by deliberate divine design, from the male body. The simple reason is this ; women were designed by GOD to produce and nurse children, their bodies must be designed accordingly. Full stop. Both male and female are born the same way, as they grow, women begin to grow shapes and body structures to enhance baby production and nursing, men do not have such because they don't need it. All the internal organs of a woman meant to be fertilised, carry babies and deliver them begin to develop and mature. To ensure women are willing to be fertilised and submit to baby production, necessary emotions and feelings for men also begin to grow in them; all these are natural and GOD-given. To ensure men go for them, necessary feelings and desires also begin to develop in men as they view maturing women and their unique female features. All these are needed for the GOD designed system of human procreation and multiplication to run exactly how GOD wants it. GOD knowing this system is in place and by divine law, mutual attraction between a man and a woman will eventually lead to sex; women will want their bodies touched and men will want to touch; if this is allowed to run without being checked, it will lead to much sin and many troubles. To check this, GOD immediately instituted a system of marriage.

Genesis 2:21-24. KJV
And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man. And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

Man had since been desiring woman and woman desiring man; a law.

Genesis 4:1. KJV
And Adam knew Eve his wife; and she conceived, and bare Cain, and said, I have gotten a man from the LORD.

Who taught them sex, no one. It was inborn, it came naturally. A law at work. This law must have boundaries lest it wreaks havoc, thus marriage. Sex was meant for marriage only and MUST not be viewed by a third party. It is secret, private and personal. A law.

Every man should pick the woman he wants, the woman the man he wants and both are free to satisfy their GOD given desires the way it suits them within the context of marriage only. GOD did not fix any age for marriage, no need to, children and young ones remain innocent at heart until body and mind maturity is reached, non of them can desire sex or marriage at such age, all such desires at such tender age are unnatural and demands spiritual attention, even the body is not ripe for it. Once your body and reasoning start getting matured enough for sex and marriage, you are divinely permitted to marry immediately. Late marriage that leads to much sin and many ills was never GOD'S design. The original divine design and plan took care of all needed boundaries.

My focus today is for women. Women, read carefully. You have a body shape and design meant for baby production which must attract men for them to come for you. Your GOD given body was never intended for seduction, defrauding men and to destroy men. The understanding of this will help you know how to maintain and use that body. Hear me; using the female body for other evil purposes outside GOD'S original design did not originate from GOD, it came with sin and the forces of darkness.

NEVER JOIN THAT, YOU ARE A CHILD OF GOD.

The sinful nature if not subjected to Salvation in JESUS can hijack your body to destroy you, it is called fornication and adultery, sin before GOD. This means you are stepping outside GOD'S proper boundary for the female body. Only Salvation in JESUS can tame this. Satan and his forces, knowing the power of the female body, began to design a system of sexual immorality around it. They began to send in agents who deliberately reveal the sensitive parts of a woman's body so as to promote sexual immorality and destroy countless lives. The design and wearing of body revealing dresses is a deliberate plot of darkness to destroy all men who fall for such. Since this is contrary to GOD'S purpose and meant to destroy, hear me ;

ALL WOMEN WHO USE THEIR BODIES FOR EVIL PURPOSES ACTIVATE GENERATIONAL CURSE THAT WILL ENSURE SAME THING HAPPENS TO THEIR OFFSPRINGS.

Marine agents are specialists in this, they also marry and bear kids; this is why the offsprings of marine agents often get destroyed by women and always fall cheaply, consequence of what their parents did. Evil forces, to ensure they always hit their targets; also use spiritual powers, curses, spells and getting people possessed to catch and destroy their victims through sexual immorality. You have no idea how many bodies of men and women have been ravished and subjected to all manners of sexual humiliation and loss of glory under spell, spiritual cloning or by being possessed. Beloved, many captured men and women you see living in chains of sexual immorality have no idea what they are doing. They were captured.

SEXUAL IMMORALITY AROSE THROUGH THE PERVERSION OF WHAT GOD DESIGNED FOR MARRIAGE AND PROCREATION.

Knowing all these, all genuinely born-again sisters must by all means distance themselves from doing anything that will make them use their bodies for any evil purpose.

1. Always dress to cover all sensitive parts, remember, you are not a marine agent.

2. As you mature, begin to comport yourself in such a manner so as not to seduce any man. You cannot sleep in the house of a man you are not yet married to. Do nothing to awake his sexual desires for you. Careless touch can kindle a fire you might not be able to quench.

3. You will have desires as you grow and mature, go through my teachings above, get a GOD man and marry as soon as you can.

4. Again, go through all my teachings for women and also go through all my works for your own good.

Sisters, be different  !

𝑾𝒆 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒔𝒆𝒆𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒎𝒚 𝒑𝒂𝒔𝒕 𝒕𝒆𝒂𝒄𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈𝒔 𝒐𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒖𝒃𝒋𝒆𝒄𝒕 𝒐𝒇 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆, 𝒆𝒔𝒑𝒆𝒄𝒊𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒍𝒂𝒔𝒕 𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒐𝒏 𝑮𝑶𝑫'𝑺 𝑶𝑹𝑰𝑮𝑰𝑵𝑨𝑳 𝑫𝑬𝑺𝑰𝑮𝑵 𝑭𝑶𝑹 𝑻𝑯𝑬 𝑭𝑬𝑴𝑨𝑳𝑬 𝑩𝑶𝑫𝒀, 𝑮𝑶𝑫'𝑺 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒖𝒔 𝒃𝒖𝒊𝒍𝒕 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒊𝒈𝒏 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒄𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒉𝒖𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒓𝒂𝒄𝒆. 𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒏𝒐 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒂𝒏𝒊𝒎𝒂𝒍𝒔 𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒓 𝒋𝒖𝒏𝒈𝒍𝒆, 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒏𝒐 𝒔𝒆𝒙𝒖𝒂𝒍 𝒔𝒊𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒊𝒎𝒂𝒍 𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈𝒅𝒐𝒎. 𝑨𝒏𝒊𝒎𝒂𝒍𝒔 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒆𝒙 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒂𝒏𝒚𝒕𝒊𝒎𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒂𝒔 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒐𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒇𝒆𝒎𝒂𝒍𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒊𝒎𝒂𝒍𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒊𝒓 𝒔𝒑𝒆𝒄𝒊𝒆, 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒇𝒓𝒆𝒆. 𝑰𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒉𝒖𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒍𝒅, 𝒊𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒅𝒐 𝒔𝒖𝒄𝒉, 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒆𝒏𝒅 𝒊𝒏 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒍. 𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒏𝒐 𝒔𝒊𝒏 𝒐𝒇 𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒏𝒊𝒄𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒐𝒓 𝒂𝒅𝒖𝒍𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒚 𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒊𝒎𝒂𝒍 𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒍𝒅 𝒖𝒏𝒍𝒊𝒌𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒉𝒖𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒍𝒅 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒔𝒆𝒙 𝒊𝒔 𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒊𝒄𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒐𝒏𝒍𝒚 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒔𝒑𝒐𝒖𝒔𝒆; 𝑯𝑬 𝒂𝒍𝒔𝒐 𝒈𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒖𝒔 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒍𝒚 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒓𝒐𝒍 𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒂𝒎𝒆 𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒊𝒓𝒆𝒔; 𝑺𝒂𝒍𝒗𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑱𝑬𝑺𝑼𝑺 𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒂𝒎𝒆 𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒇𝒖𝒍 𝒏𝒂𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒆.

𝑮𝑶𝑫, 𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒏𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔, 𝒏𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒊𝒈𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒆 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒂𝒏𝒚𝒃𝒐𝒅𝒚, 𝒔𝒊𝒎𝒑𝒍𝒚 𝒃𝒆𝒄𝒂𝒖𝒔𝒆 𝒃𝒚 𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒊𝒈𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒃𝒐𝒅𝒚 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒏𝒂𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒃𝒆𝒈𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒐 𝒈𝒓𝒐𝒘 𝒊𝒕'𝒔 𝒐𝒘𝒏 𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒊𝒓𝒆𝒔, 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒅𝒖𝒄𝒆 𝒏𝒆𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒂𝒓𝒚 𝒓𝒆𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒅𝒖𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒆𝒏𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒉𝒐𝒓𝒎𝒐𝒏𝒆𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒃𝒐𝒅𝒚 𝒇𝒍𝒖𝒊𝒅𝒔 𝒂𝒔 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒎𝒂𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒆; 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒍𝒚 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒘𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒏, 𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒎𝒆𝒏. 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝒐𝒓𝒊𝒈𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒍 𝒔𝒚𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒎 𝒐𝒇 𝒉𝒖𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒔𝒖𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒏𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝑮𝑶𝑫 𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒊𝒈𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒎𝒂𝒌𝒆𝒔 𝒊𝒕 𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚 𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒚 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒚 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒍𝒚. 𝑮𝑶𝑫 𝒅𝒊𝒅 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒊𝒈𝒏 6 𝒚𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒔 𝒑𝒓𝒊𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒚 𝒔𝒄𝒉𝒐𝒐𝒍, 6 𝒚𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒔 𝒔𝒆𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒅𝒂𝒓𝒚 𝒔𝒄𝒉𝒐𝒐𝒍, 4 𝒐𝒓 5 𝒚𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒔 𝒖𝒏𝒊𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒊𝒕𝒚, 𝒚𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒑𝒐𝒔𝒕𝒈𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒖𝒂𝒕𝒆 𝒔𝒕𝒖𝒅𝒊𝒆𝒔, 𝒚𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒅𝒆𝒍𝒂𝒚𝒆𝒅 𝒂𝒅𝒎𝒊𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒐𝒓 𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒌𝒆𝒓𝒔 𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒊𝒌𝒆, 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒍𝒐𝒏𝒈𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒚𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒔 𝒔𝒑𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒊𝒏 𝒔𝒄𝒉𝒐𝒐𝒍 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒆𝒅𝒖𝒄𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏; 𝒚𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒋𝒐𝒃 𝒔𝒆𝒆𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝒍𝒐𝒐𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒎𝒐𝒏𝒆𝒚 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒚, 𝒆𝒕𝒄. 𝑩𝒚 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒕𝒊𝒎𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒔𝒆𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒚, 𝒂 𝒘𝒐𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒔 𝒂𝒍𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒅𝒚 𝒑𝒖𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒓𝒕𝒚 𝒚𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒔, 𝒎𝒆𝒏 𝒂𝒍𝒔𝒐.

𝑾𝒊𝒕𝒉𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝑺𝒂𝒍𝒗𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑱𝑬𝑺𝑼𝑺, 𝒐𝒏𝒍𝒚 𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚 𝒇𝒆𝒘 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒉𝒐𝒍𝒅 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒎𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒗𝒆𝒔 𝒕𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒂𝒈𝒆. 𝑺𝒂𝒍𝒗𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑱𝑬𝑺𝑼𝑺 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒂𝒎𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒊𝒓𝒆𝒔, 𝒊𝒕 𝒊𝒔 𝒂 𝒏𝒆𝒘 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒐𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒅𝒆 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒏𝒂𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒂𝒍 𝒖𝒓𝒈𝒆𝒔. 𝑰𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒊𝒏𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒊𝒕 𝒂𝒏𝒊𝒎𝒂𝒍 𝒏𝒂𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒅𝒐 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒚 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒍𝒚, 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒖𝒓𝒈𝒆 𝒎𝒊𝒈𝒉𝒕 𝒃𝒆 𝒕𝒐𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒐𝒏𝒈 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒊𝒔𝒕; 𝒑𝒓𝒂𝒚 𝒕𝒐 𝑮𝑶𝑫 𝒕𝒐 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒂𝒓𝒆𝒂, 𝑯𝑬 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍. 𝑰 𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒖𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒅𝒐𝒏'𝒕 𝒌𝒏𝒐𝒘 𝒕𝒉𝒐𝒔𝒆 𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒊𝒈𝒏𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒚𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒎𝒔 𝒘𝒆 𝒐𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒆 𝒐𝒏 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒉 : 𝒆𝒅𝒖𝒄𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 (𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒍𝒐𝒏𝒈𝒆𝒅 𝒚𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒆𝒅𝒖𝒄𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏), 𝒇𝒂𝒎𝒊𝒍𝒚 (𝒘𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒉𝒖𝒔𝒃𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒆𝒒𝒖𝒂𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒚), 𝒂𝒈𝒓𝒊𝒄𝒖𝒍𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒆 (𝒇𝒆𝒘 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒅𝒖𝒄𝒆𝒓𝒔, 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒖𝒎𝒆𝒓𝒔), 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆 (𝒆𝒙𝒑𝒆𝒏𝒔𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒊𝒕𝒆𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒖𝒏𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒄 𝒇𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒊𝒂𝒍 𝒑𝒓𝒆𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒑𝒍𝒖𝒔 𝒖𝒏𝒔𝒄𝒓𝒊𝒐𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒂𝒍 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒂𝒍 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒑𝒓𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒄𝒆𝒔), 𝒆𝒕𝒄. 𝑴𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒔𝒆 𝒑𝒓𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒄𝒆𝒔 𝒗𝒊𝒐𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒔 𝑮𝑶𝑫'𝑺 𝒐𝒓𝒊𝒈𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒍 𝒔𝒚𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒎𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒎𝒂𝒌𝒆𝒔 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚 𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒚 𝒕𝒐 𝒍𝒊𝒗𝒆. 𝑾𝒊𝒔𝒉 𝒘𝒆 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒓𝒆𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒊𝒈𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒍𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒎 𝒕𝒐 𝑮𝑶𝑫'𝑺 𝒐𝒓𝒊𝒈𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒍 𝒔𝒚𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒎 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒂𝒌𝒆 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒊𝒆𝒓 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒖𝒔 𝒂𝒍𝒍. 𝑹𝒆𝒎𝒆𝒎𝒃𝒆𝒓, 𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒑𝒓𝒆𝒈𝒏𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒚 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒂 𝒘𝒐𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒃𝒆𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒃𝒐𝒅𝒚 𝒎𝒂𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒊𝒕𝒚 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒂𝒇𝒕𝒆𝒓 35 𝒚𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒂 𝒓𝒊𝒔𝒌, 𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒕𝒉 𝒘𝒊𝒔𝒆. 𝑻𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒊𝒔 𝒔𝒊𝒎𝒑𝒍𝒚 𝒕𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒖𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒂 𝒅𝒊𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒆 𝒔𝒚𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒎 𝒊𝒔 𝒊𝒏 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒎𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒃𝒆 𝒗𝒊𝒐𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒅.

𝑴𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒍𝒅 𝒆𝒙𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒅𝒆𝒍𝒂𝒚 𝒊𝒏 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒅𝒖𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒐𝒏𝒔 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒎𝒐𝒓𝒆; 𝒍𝒆𝒕'𝒔 𝒆𝒙𝒑𝒍𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒐𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒐𝒏𝒔 𝒔𝒐 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒆𝒔𝒄𝒂𝒑𝒆 𝒅𝒆𝒍𝒂𝒚 𝒊𝒏 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆. 𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒏𝒐 𝒑𝒐𝒊𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒄𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒅𝒓𝒆𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝒔𝒄𝒉𝒐𝒐𝒍 𝒊𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒐𝒍𝒅 𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒂𝒇𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒊𝒓𝒆𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕.

1. 𝑷𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒐𝒏𝒂𝒍 𝒇𝒂𝒖𝒍𝒕𝒔. 𝑴𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒎𝒂𝒅𝒆 𝒆𝒓𝒓𝒐𝒓 𝒐𝒇 𝒋𝒖𝒅𝒈𝒆𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒎𝒊𝒔𝒔𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒊𝒓 𝑮𝑶𝑫-𝒔𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒗𝒂𝒓𝒊𝒐𝒖𝒔 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒐𝒏𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒘𝒓𝒐𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒅𝒔𝒆𝒕𝒔 𝒂𝒃𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆. 𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒏𝒐 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒊𝒕 𝒊𝒔 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒂𝒕 𝒄𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒂 𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒐𝒓 𝒘𝒐𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒎𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒃𝒆 𝒓𝒊𝒄𝒉 𝒐𝒓 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒍𝒐𝒕𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒔𝒕𝒖𝒇𝒇𝒔 𝒃𝒆𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒉𝒆 𝒐𝒓 𝒔𝒉𝒆 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒚. 𝒀𝒆𝒔, 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝑩𝒊𝒃𝒍𝒆 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒇𝒊𝒓𝒎𝒔 𝒈𝒊𝒇𝒕𝒔, 𝒅𝒐𝒘𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒔, 𝒆𝒕𝒄, 𝒂𝒔 𝑩𝒊𝒃𝒍𝒆 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒑𝒓𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒄𝒆𝒔; 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒆𝒙𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒗𝒂𝒈𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒇𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒊𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒔𝒖𝒇𝒇𝒐𝒄𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒏𝒆𝒓 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒕𝒓𝒊𝒃𝒆 𝒑𝒓𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒊𝒕 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚. 𝑨 𝒎𝒂𝒋𝒐𝒓 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒎𝒊𝒔𝒔 𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒊𝒏 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒍𝒚 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆. 𝑰 𝒔𝒖𝒈𝒈𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒘𝒆 𝒈𝒆𝒕 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒄; 𝒘𝒐𝒎𝒂𝒏, 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒂 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆, 𝒎𝒆𝒏, 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆, 𝒃𝒐𝒕𝒉 𝒈𝒆𝒕 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒅, 𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒌 𝒕𝒐𝒈𝒆𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒃𝒐𝒕𝒉 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒄𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒆 𝒂 𝒔𝒖𝒄𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒇𝒖𝒍 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒎𝒂𝒌𝒆 𝒂 𝒉𝒐𝒎𝒆.

2. 𝑺𝒑𝒊𝒓𝒊𝒕𝒖𝒂𝒍 𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒄𝒆𝒔 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒂𝒍𝒔𝒐 𝒇𝒊𝒈𝒉𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒍𝒚 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒐𝒓 𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒈𝒆𝒕𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒅 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒗𝒂𝒓𝒊𝒐𝒖𝒔 𝒑𝒖𝒓𝒑𝒐𝒔𝒆𝒔. 𝑺𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒐𝒏𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒊𝒓 𝒅𝒐𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒔𝒐 𝒂𝒓𝒆 : 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒈𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒕 𝒈𝒍𝒐𝒓𝒚 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒚 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒐𝒚, 𝒍𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒐𝒇 𝒆𝒗𝒊𝒍 𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒄𝒆𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒘𝒊𝒄𝒌𝒆𝒅 𝒔𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒔 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒈𝒐 𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒅𝒓𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒔𝒖𝒊𝒕𝒐𝒓𝒔 𝒐𝒓 𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒔 𝒂𝒘𝒂𝒚 𝒇𝒓𝒐𝒎 𝒚𝒐𝒖, 𝒔𝒑𝒊𝒓𝒊𝒕 𝒘𝒊𝒗𝒆𝒔 𝒐𝒓 𝒉𝒖𝒔𝒃𝒂𝒏𝒅𝒔 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒔𝒆𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒊𝒓 𝒐𝒘𝒏, 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒇𝒖𝒓𝒚 𝒐𝒇 𝒋𝒊𝒍𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒔 𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒗𝒆𝒏𝒈𝒆𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆, 𝒆𝒏𝒗𝒚 𝒂𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒃𝒆𝒂𝒖𝒕𝒚 𝒐𝒓 𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒅𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒔𝒔 (𝒚𝒆𝒔, 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒎𝒂𝒌𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒎 𝒆𝒏𝒗𝒚 𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒏𝒆𝒓 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆), 𝒓𝒆𝒋𝒆𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒐𝒇 𝒂𝒈𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒅𝒂𝒓𝒌𝒏𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒔𝒆𝒙𝒖𝒂𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒎𝒂𝒌𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒎 𝒎𝒐𝒃𝒊𝒍𝒊𝒔𝒆 𝒔𝒑𝒊𝒓𝒊𝒕𝒖𝒂𝒍 𝒘𝒂𝒓𝒇𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒂𝒈𝒂𝒊𝒏𝒔𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒈𝒆𝒕𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒅, 𝒅𝒊𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒔 𝒆𝒗𝒊𝒍 𝒄𝒐𝒗𝒆𝒏𝒂𝒏𝒕𝒔 𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒅 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒃𝒚 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒐𝒓 𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒔, 𝒕𝒉𝒐𝒔𝒆 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒃𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒆𝒏, 𝒆𝒏𝒗𝒚 𝒂𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒔𝒖𝒄𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒊𝒏 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆, 𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒊𝒓𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒂𝒃𝒐𝒕𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒇𝒖𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒆 𝒉𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒊𝒏𝒆𝒔𝒔, 𝒗𝒆𝒏𝒈𝒆𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒆𝒗𝒊𝒍 𝒔𝒑𝒊𝒓𝒊𝒕𝒔 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒑𝒓𝒂𝒚 𝒂𝒈𝒂𝒊𝒏𝒔𝒕 𝒊𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒂 𝒑𝒓𝒂𝒚𝒆𝒓 𝒘𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒐𝒓 𝒐𝒓 𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝑮𝒐𝒔𝒑𝒆𝒍, 𝒆𝒗𝒊𝒍 𝒂𝒈𝒆𝒏𝒅𝒂 𝒂𝒈𝒂𝒊𝒏𝒔𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆 (𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒎𝒊𝒈𝒉𝒕 𝒐𝒇𝒕𝒆𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒄𝒍𝒖𝒅𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒈𝒆𝒕𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒅 𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒐𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒚𝒐𝒖), 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒉𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒊𝒏𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒆𝒆, 𝒘𝒊𝒄𝒌𝒆𝒅 𝒔𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒔 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒔 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒂𝒍 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒎 𝒅𝒆𝒍𝒂𝒚𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒈𝒆𝒕𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒅 (𝒂𝒔 𝒊𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒐𝒘𝒏 𝒄𝒂𝒔𝒆, 𝑰 𝒂𝒎 𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈𝒍𝒆, 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝑮𝑶𝑫'𝑺 𝒇𝒂𝒖𝒍𝒕 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒔𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒔 𝒆𝒓𝒓𝒐𝒓), 𝒂𝒈𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒅𝒂𝒓𝒌𝒏𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒚 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒃𝒚 𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒎𝒆𝒂𝒏𝒔 𝒚𝒆𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒓𝒆𝒋𝒆𝒄𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒎 (𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒈𝒆𝒕𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒅), 𝒕𝒉𝒐𝒔𝒆 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒂 𝒍𝒐𝒏𝒆𝒍𝒚 𝒐𝒍𝒅 𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒄𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒄𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒅𝒓𝒆𝒏, 𝒆𝒗𝒊𝒍 𝒔𝒑𝒊𝒓𝒊𝒕𝒔 𝒊𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒄𝒆𝒅 𝒊𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒏𝒔𝒖𝒓𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒏𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒚 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒎𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒐𝒏𝒔.

3. 𝒀𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒑𝒓𝒊𝒅𝒆 𝒂𝒕 𝒃𝒆𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒃𝒆𝒂𝒖𝒕𝒊𝒇𝒖𝒍 𝒐𝒓 𝒇𝒓𝒐𝒎 𝒂 𝒘𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒕𝒉𝒚 𝒃𝒂𝒄𝒌𝒈𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒅 𝒕𝒉𝒖𝒔 𝒍𝒐𝒐𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒅𝒐𝒘𝒏 𝒐𝒏 𝒈𝒐𝒐𝒅 𝒔𝒖𝒊𝒕𝒐𝒓𝒔 𝒖𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒍 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒅𝒆𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒕.

4. 𝑭𝒆𝒂𝒓 𝒐𝒇 𝒔𝒆𝒙 𝒅𝒖𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒍𝒊𝒆𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒎𝒊𝒔𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒄𝒆𝒑𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔.

5. 𝑻𝒐𝒐 𝒉𝒊𝒈𝒉 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒖𝒏𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒄 𝒆𝒙𝒑𝒆𝒄𝒕𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔 𝒊𝒏 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆. 𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒔𝒖𝒄𝒉 𝒂 𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒇𝒆𝒄𝒕 𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒐𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒅𝒐𝒆𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒆𝒙𝒊𝒔𝒕.

6. 𝒀𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒃𝒂𝒅 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒓𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒅𝒓𝒊𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒔 𝒂𝒘𝒂𝒚 𝒇𝒓𝒐𝒎 𝒚𝒐𝒖.  𝑰 𝒓𝒆𝒎𝒆𝒎𝒃𝒆𝒓 𝒔𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒂𝒍 𝒚𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒔 𝒂𝒈𝒐, 𝑰 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒖𝒏𝒊𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒊𝒕𝒚.  𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚 𝒑𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒕𝒚 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒈 𝒘𝒐𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒄𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒅  𝑶𝒚𝒊𝒏....(𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒎𝒊𝒕 𝒎𝒆 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒑𝒍𝒆𝒕𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒏𝒂𝒎𝒆 𝒔𝒐 𝒂𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒅𝒊𝒗𝒖𝒍𝒈𝒆 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒕𝒚 )  𝒊𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒇𝒂𝒄𝒖𝒍𝒕𝒚 𝒕𝒐𝒐 𝒂𝒔 𝒂 𝒇𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐𝒘 𝒔𝒕𝒖𝒅𝒆𝒏𝒕.  𝑴𝒚 𝒐𝒉 𝒎𝒚, 𝒔𝒉𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒈𝒐𝒐𝒅 𝒍𝒐𝒐𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒇𝒆𝒄𝒕𝒍𝒚 𝒇𝒊𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒕𝒂𝒔𝒕𝒆.  𝑺𝒉𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒂 𝒃𝒆𝒍𝒊𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝒕𝒐𝒐 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒃𝒆𝒈𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒉𝒐𝒘 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒊𝒏 𝒎𝒆. 𝑰 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒈𝒍𝒂𝒅. 𝑰 𝒅𝒆𝒄𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒑𝒖𝒓𝒔𝒖𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒎𝒂𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒇𝒖𝒓𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓. 𝑭𝒐𝒓𝒕𝒖𝒏𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒍𝒚, 𝑰 𝒂𝒍𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒅𝒚 𝒉𝒂𝒅 𝒂 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒏 𝒄𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒕𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒑, 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒗𝒊𝒍 𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒄𝒆𝒔 𝒃𝒐𝒕𝒉 𝒊𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒎𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒊𝒔𝒊𝒃𝒍𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒎𝒔; 𝒕𝒉𝒖𝒔 𝑰 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒂 𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒕𝒍𝒆 𝒆𝒙𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆𝒅. 𝑰 𝒅𝒊𝒅 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒋𝒖𝒎𝒑 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒏𝒆𝒘 𝒓𝒆𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒑 𝒄𝒂𝒓𝒆𝒍𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒍𝒚. 𝑾𝒆 𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒂𝒍𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒅𝒚 𝒔𝒑𝒆𝒂𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒔 𝒄𝒐𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒈𝒖𝒆𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒓𝒆𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒔 𝒔𝒖𝒄𝒉. 𝑰 𝒅𝒆𝒄𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒈𝒆𝒕 𝒄𝒍𝒐𝒔𝒆𝒓 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒃𝒍𝒊𝒔𝒉 𝒂 𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒐𝒏𝒈𝒆𝒓 𝒇𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒏𝒅𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒑 𝒃𝒆𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒉𝒊𝒕𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒏𝒂𝒊𝒍 𝒐𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒅. 𝑰 𝒅𝒆𝒄𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒑𝒂𝒚 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒂 𝒗𝒊𝒔𝒊𝒕 𝒖𝒏𝒂𝒏𝒏𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒄𝒆𝒅. 𝑰 𝒘𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒓𝒐𝒐𝒎, 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒔𝒉𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒚𝒆𝒕 𝒃𝒂𝒄𝒌. 𝑯𝒆𝒓 𝒓𝒐𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒔 𝒘𝒆𝒍𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒅 𝒎𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒐𝒇𝒇𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒅 𝒎𝒆 𝒂 𝒔𝒆𝒂𝒕. 𝑾𝒆 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒖𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒍 𝒔𝒉𝒆 𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒗𝒆𝒅. 𝑺𝒉𝒆 𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒓𝒐𝒐𝒎, 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒃𝒂𝒃𝒍𝒚 𝒔𝒉𝒆 𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒕𝒊𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒅𝒊𝒅𝒏'𝒕 𝒏𝒐𝒕𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒊𝒕 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒎𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒊𝒏 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒏𝒂𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒂𝒍 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒏𝒆𝒓. 𝑺𝒉𝒆 𝒅𝒊𝒔𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒚𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒓𝒐𝒐𝒎 𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒎𝒐𝒔𝒕 𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒐𝒈𝒂𝒏𝒕, 𝒗𝒊𝒕𝒖𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒍𝒊𝒌𝒆, 𝒔𝒕𝒖𝒃𝒃𝒐𝒓𝒏, 𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇𝒊𝒔𝒉 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒎𝒐𝒔𝒕 𝒊𝒏𝒔𝒖𝒍𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒓𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒉𝒐𝒔𝒆 𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒓𝒐𝒐𝒎 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒈𝒖𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒔 𝒔𝒊𝒕𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈. 𝑰 𝒕𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒅 𝒈𝒆𝒕𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒂𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒊𝒕 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒍𝒊𝒌𝒆 𝑰 𝒉𝒂𝒅 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒆𝒆 𝒂 𝒈𝒐𝒅; 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒓𝒐𝒍 𝒏𝒂𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒕𝒐𝒐 𝒆𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒏𝒕, 𝒏𝒐 𝒉𝒊𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒕. 𝑺𝒉𝒆 𝒍𝒐𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒅 𝒂𝒕 𝒎𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒂𝒔 𝒊𝒇 𝑰 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒅𝒚𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝑰 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒂𝒍𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒅𝒚 𝒘𝒂𝒊𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒗𝒂𝒍. 𝑰𝒕 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒐𝒃𝒗𝒊𝒐𝒖𝒔, 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒃𝒆𝒂𝒖𝒕𝒚 𝒉𝒂𝒅 𝒈𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒅. 𝑺𝒉𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒂 𝒃𝒆𝒂𝒖𝒕𝒚 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚, 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒇𝒊𝒈𝒖𝒓𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒏𝒆𝒂𝒓 𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒇𝒆𝒄𝒕, 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒔 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒐𝒚 𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒎𝒂𝒏. 𝑰 𝒌𝒆𝒑𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒄𝒐𝒐𝒍. 𝑯𝒆𝒓 𝒓𝒐𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒂𝒕𝒆 𝒌𝒆𝒑𝒕 𝒃𝒆𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒏𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉. 𝑨𝒍𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒄𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔 𝒕𝒐𝒐𝒌 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒄𝒆 𝒃𝒆𝒕𝒘𝒆𝒆𝒏 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒂 𝒇𝒆𝒘 𝒐𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒈𝒊𝒓𝒍𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒔𝒉𝒆 𝒐𝒑𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒖𝒑 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒅𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒂𝒃𝒖𝒔𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒄𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅 𝒎𝒂𝒌𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒊𝒕 𝒔𝒖𝒊𝒄𝒊𝒅𝒆; 𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒔𝒆 𝒃𝒆𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒎𝒆. 𝑰 𝒒𝒖𝒊𝒆𝒕𝒍𝒚 𝒆𝒙𝒄𝒖𝒔𝒆𝒅 𝒎𝒚𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒍𝒆𝒇𝒕, 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒑𝒓𝒊𝒅𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒔𝒊𝒄𝒌𝒆𝒏𝒊𝒏𝒈. 𝑰 𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒍𝒊𝒌𝒆𝒅 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉, 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒅𝒆𝒆𝒑𝒍𝒚 𝒉𝒖𝒓𝒕 𝒃𝒚 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒓𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒆𝒓, 𝒆𝒔𝒑𝒆𝒄𝒊𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒚 𝑰 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒕𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒑𝒓𝒊𝒅𝒆.  𝑰 𝒇𝒆𝒍𝒕 𝑰 𝒄𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅 𝒈𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒂 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒃𝒂𝒃𝒍𝒚 𝒍𝒐𝒐𝒌 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒂 𝒘𝒂𝒚 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒑𝒆𝒂𝒌 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒂𝒃𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒂𝒕𝒕𝒊𝒕𝒖𝒅𝒆 𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒔𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒔𝒉𝒐𝒘𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒍𝒊𝒌𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒎𝒆 𝒕𝒐𝒐. 𝑯𝒆𝒓 𝒓𝒐𝒐𝒎𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒔 𝒎𝒊𝒈𝒉𝒕 𝒃𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒃𝒍𝒆𝒎, 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒉𝒆𝒓, 𝑰 𝒕𝒉𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉𝒕. 𝑰 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒕𝒓𝒚𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒐 𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒂𝒍𝒊𝒔𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒈𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒂 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆. 𝑰 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑 𝒉𝒆𝒓, 𝑰 𝒔𝒂𝒊𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒚𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇. 𝑺𝒊𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒘𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒎𝒆𝒆𝒕 𝒊𝒏 𝒔𝒄𝒉𝒐𝒐𝒍, 𝑰 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒄𝒉 𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒉𝒆𝒓. 𝑰 𝒔𝒂𝒘 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒊𝒏 𝒔𝒄𝒉𝒐𝒐𝒍 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒅𝒚 𝒕𝒐 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒄𝒉 𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒉𝒆𝒓. 𝑺𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒂𝒘 𝒎𝒆 𝒕𝒐𝒐, 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒂𝒕𝒕𝒊𝒕𝒖𝒅𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒃𝒂𝒅. 𝑯𝒆𝒓 𝒃𝒂𝒔𝒊𝒄 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒃𝒍𝒆𝒎 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒅𝒆𝒆𝒑 𝒑𝒓𝒊𝒅𝒆. 𝑰 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒌 𝒃𝒐𝒚𝒔 𝒉𝒂𝒅 𝒓𝒆𝒅𝒖𝒄𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒎𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒗𝒆𝒔 𝒃𝒆𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝒔𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒂𝒍 𝒐𝒄𝒄𝒂𝒔𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔 𝒃𝒆𝒄𝒂𝒖𝒔𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒃𝒆𝒂𝒖𝒕𝒚 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒉𝒂𝒅 𝒈𝒐𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒏 𝒕𝒐 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒅. 𝑺𝒉𝒆 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒅 𝒃𝒂𝒄𝒌 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒃𝒆𝒈𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒊𝒇𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒓𝒖𝒏 𝒂𝒇𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒎𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒑 𝒎𝒆 𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒅 𝒐𝒇 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒓𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒆𝒓. 𝑴𝒚 𝒈𝒓𝒆𝒆𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒎𝒂𝒅𝒆 𝒊𝒕 𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒔𝒆, 𝒔𝒉𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒑𝒍𝒊𝒆𝒅 𝒍𝒊𝒌𝒆 𝒔𝒉𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒅𝒐𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒆 𝒂 𝒇𝒂𝒗𝒐𝒖𝒓.  𝑺𝒉𝒆 𝒃𝒆𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆𝒅 𝒂𝒔 𝒊𝒇 𝑰 𝒏𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝒗𝒊𝒔𝒊𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒉𝒆𝒓, 𝒕𝒉𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉 𝒔𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒉𝒂𝒅 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒊𝒏 𝒎𝒆 𝒐𝒃𝒗𝒊𝒐𝒖𝒔𝒍𝒚. 𝑾𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒈𝒐 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒇𝒂𝒓 𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂 𝒎𝒂𝒏, 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒉𝒖𝒓𝒕 𝒉𝒊𝒎 𝒅𝒆𝒆𝒑𝒍𝒚 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒘𝒂𝒌𝒆 𝒖𝒑 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒉𝒐𝒏𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏 𝒉𝒊𝒎. 𝑯𝒆𝒓 𝒃𝒆𝒂𝒖𝒕𝒚 𝒔𝒊𝒎𝒑𝒍𝒚 𝒅𝒊𝒔𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒆𝒅 𝒃𝒆𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒎𝒚 𝒇𝒂𝒄𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝑰 𝒄𝒖𝒕 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒇𝒇 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒑𝒍𝒆𝒕𝒆𝒍𝒚. 𝑬𝒂𝒄𝒉 𝒕𝒊𝒎𝒆 𝒔𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒆𝒆𝒔 𝒎𝒆, 𝒔𝒉𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒊𝒕𝒔 𝒆𝒙𝒑𝒆𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒈𝒓𝒆𝒆𝒕 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒓𝒖𝒏 𝒂𝒇𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒉𝒆𝒓; 𝑰 𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒕𝒐𝒐𝒅 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒔𝒎𝒊𝒍𝒆𝒅 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏. 𝑰 𝒔𝒊𝒎𝒑𝒍𝒚 𝒑𝒂𝒔𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒎𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒐𝒏. 𝑨𝒇𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒂 𝒘𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒆, 𝑰 𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒈𝒐𝒕 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒑𝒍𝒆𝒕𝒆𝒍𝒚 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒔𝒕𝒐𝒑𝒑𝒆𝒅 𝒏𝒐𝒕𝒊𝒄𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒏 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝒘𝒆 𝒄𝒓𝒐𝒔𝒔 𝒑𝒂𝒕𝒉𝒔. 𝑺𝒉𝒆 𝒏𝒐𝒕𝒊𝒄𝒆𝒅 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒕𝒐𝒐 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒂𝒅𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕. 𝑾𝒆 𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒘𝒂𝒚𝒔.  𝑰𝒎𝒂𝒈𝒊𝒏𝒆 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒂𝒔 𝒂 𝒘𝒊𝒇𝒆; 𝒂 𝒅𝒊𝒗𝒐𝒓𝒄𝒆 𝒔𝒄𝒆𝒏𝒂𝒓𝒊𝒐 𝒐𝒃𝒗𝒊𝒐𝒖𝒔𝒍𝒚. 𝑰𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒔𝒖𝒄𝒉, 𝒂𝒅𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒓𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒆𝒓.

7. 𝒀𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒔𝒆𝒙𝒖𝒂𝒍 𝒊𝒎𝒎𝒐𝒓𝒂𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒚 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒍𝒐𝒐𝒔𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒐𝒑𝒑𝒐𝒔𝒊𝒕𝒆 𝒔𝒆𝒙; 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒔𝒄𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒘𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅 𝒃𝒆 𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒔 𝒂𝒘𝒂𝒚.

8. 𝑺𝒆𝒍𝒇𝒊𝒔𝒉 𝒂𝒕𝒕𝒊𝒕𝒖𝒅𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒓𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒆𝒓.

9. 𝑳𝒂𝒄𝒌 𝒐𝒇 𝒃𝒂𝒔𝒊𝒄 𝒉𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒂𝒈𝒆𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒔𝒌𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒔.

10. 𝑮𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒂𝒍 𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒔𝒆 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒅𝒆𝒍𝒂𝒚 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒊𝒏 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒂𝒔 𝒂 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒆𝒒𝒖𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒆𝒗𝒊𝒍 𝒅𝒆𝒆𝒅𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒐𝒓𝒔. 𝑺𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒄𝒌𝒆𝒅 𝒇𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒏𝒅𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒐𝒓 𝒕𝒘𝒐 𝒔𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒔 𝑰 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒊𝒏 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒃𝒍𝒐𝒄𝒌𝒆𝒅 𝒎𝒚 𝒂𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒎𝒑𝒕𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒓𝒆𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒑 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒊𝒓 𝒇𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒏𝒅𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓 𝒎𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉 𝒃𝒂𝒅 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆. 𝑻𝒉𝒐𝒔𝒆 𝒔𝒂𝒎𝒆 𝒇𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒏𝒅𝒔 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒅 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒈𝒓𝒐𝒘𝒏 𝒌𝒊𝒅𝒔 𝒘𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒆 𝑰 𝒂𝒎 𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈𝒍𝒆, 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒈𝒆𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒑𝒐𝒊𝒏𝒕. 𝑫𝒊𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒆 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒂𝒌𝒆𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒔𝒖𝒄𝒉 𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒘𝒊𝒄𝒌𝒆𝒅𝒏𝒆𝒔𝒔. 𝑩𝒆 𝒄𝒂𝒓𝒆𝒇𝒖𝒍 𝒉𝒐𝒘 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒈𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆, 𝒔𝒕𝒐𝒑 𝒃𝒍𝒐𝒄𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝑮𝑶𝑫'𝑺 𝒕𝒓𝒖𝒆 𝒄𝒉𝒐𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒑𝒆𝒐𝒑𝒍𝒆, 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒓𝒊𝒃𝒖𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒕𝒂𝒌𝒆𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕𝒆.

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𝕬𝖕𝖔𝖘𝖙𝖑𝖊 𝕿𝖔𝖘𝖎𝖓 𝕺𝖐𝖊
𝕹𝖎𝖌𝖊𝖗𝖎𝖆. 

Genesis 2:24. GNT

That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united with his wife, and they become one. 

That is GOD'S decree from creation. The law of man and woman getting married to each other. GOD ordained it, therefore anyone hindering you from getting married is simply violating the Word of GOD. Heaven knows they are violating HIS Word but might not intervene until you bring your case to HIS court to plead your case and any judgement you want. To help you understand this point, consider the judge who see people violating the law all over the country and is angered, but will not act until someone approach his or her court to present their case. They show the judge how the law had been violated against them and demand justice and judgement. The judge can now take action and the officers of law can then execute. If evil forces are deliberately and wickedly violating the law of GOD in any areas of your life; marriage delay or blockage in the context of this message, if you do not approach the court of heaven concerning this and show GOD some of the scriptures on marriage they are violating against you, you might not go free. Once you demand judgement, the judge of heaven and earth who decreed marriage and respect for marriage union will swiftly execute judgement on your enemies. HE will also intervene to settle you in good marriage provided you do the following. 

1. Best you get born-again by surrendering your life to JESUS. That is an indispensable starting point. Do it now if you are yet to do so. 

SALVATION IN JESUS

Go on your knees and do it now. Pray like this. 

I acknowledge I am a sinner, GOD forgive me. Blood of JESUS cleanse me from my sins. I receive the sacrifice of JESUS on the cross and confess HIM as my LORD and Saviour. I believe and so I have confessed". 

Having done that, go to the foundation class page and follow it through. Don't ignore this. 

2. Very important you diligently seek the face of GOD concerning the true work of GOD you must be part of; Church, ministry, etc. Not all that appears as GOD'S belong to HIM. Staying where GOD has placed you is very important. You must learn and grow in GOD. 

3. I will strongly advice you to go through my websites (I have about 4 of them including this one) here and here, go through all the Gospel and motivational teachings. Certain structural correction must be done in your life for you to have a great marriage. 

4. Start praying to GOD like mad for HIM to deliver you from all manner of marriage not good and that can destroy you. Regularly plead for Mercy from GOD concerning this issue. 

5. This becomes the most important. Diligently listen to HIM for instructions on sacrifices you must make both in giving and in deed; it is in your best interest to obey. Some of HIS instructions might not be easy to do, but do it in your own interest. Ensure your sacrifice reach GOD. This will be, as long as you constantly seek HIS face and receive sacrifice directions from HIM. The best is to do all the good you can for GOD wherever and whenever you have the opportunity to do it in the right place, to the right persons and in the right way. These can bring you blessings, including good marriage. 

6. As a woman, never say "yes" to any marriage proposal no matter how appealing, until you have spent at least 3 days of fasting with prayers (you might add more days if you wish) to seek GOD'S face before saying "yes" or "no". Men should also do the same before proposing to any woman. Also try making sacrificial giving as will be directed by the HOLY SPIRIT to the appropriate place or person you are led to before proposing or giving any response to a marriage proposal. This will save you from many grievous mistakes. A brother practiced these and he saw in revelation the sister was an agent. What if he had not prayed and made sacrifices to GOD ? He would have married an assassin. Many have neglected these points and ended marrying assassins. This is all over the news, spouse killing one another. Those are the ones we hear, what of secret death of spouse through various means people never discovered. Yes, your spouse can kill you and people will never know. Simple fasting, prayers and sacrificial giving or service unto GOD that reach GOD can deliver you from unseen death and destruction that can come in the form of a spouse. 

7. Prepare for a good marriage by learning all you can about marriage before and even after you marry. Beloved, if you eventually marry well and you are sure you did, then you and your spouse must fight to keep that marriage for evil forces hate a happy home. Non of you must ever become possessed through evil gifts or sin else the enemy will wreck your home. Be contented with what you have per time as you seek GOD for more. Beware of third parties. 

Remember; sacrifice, holiness and prayers brought you together, you must never stop doing them and keep your communication line very open in the interest of your home. Your faithfulness to each other must be absolute. 

8. GOD has different choices, you cannot predict HIM. Obey HIM, HE knows best. There is no law that says the man must be richer than the wife and vice versa. A selfish mindset will most likely miss it in marriage. A true heart for GOD is the most important. Come together in true love under GOD and work together to build a life all under GOD'S leading and divine direction. Both of you must never stop making sacrifices unto GOD. 

Psalms 10:7-10. AMP

[7]Their mouths are full of profanity and lies and fraud. They are always boasting of their evil plans. 

[8]They lurk in dark alleys of the city and murder passersby. 

[9]Like lions they crouch silently, waiting to pounce upon the poor. Like hunters they catch their victims in their traps. 

[10]The unfortunate are overwhelmed by their superior strength and fall beneath their blows. 

There are different groups of men around, only one group is good for you. Firstly, there are men who have no love nor care about women, all they want is sex and they go to any length to achieve their goals, not minding the damage they do to the women. Such men can pretend a lot and go to any extent to catch their victim. They can fake love, spend lots of money on their victim to convince them of their genuiness, yet when they have got what they wanted they turn and drop you. Yes, such men abound and many women fall victim of them. They can even proceed to marry you so as to have what they want and then throw you away. My dear women, there are men in our midst who will do anything to get their intended female victim for sex. They are the ones who kidnap or drug women for sex. They can go spiritual against you to get you. Escaping these kind of men requires spiritual help from GOD and wisdom. You must go through all my messages to women and men to escape them. Those teachings contain the relevant wisdom to deliver you from their snare. Such types of people abound amongst women too, they will also go to any extent to catch a man and satisfy their lust on him. They will wreck his home if need be or use evil powers to turn him to their robots. They often kill their men captives when sexually done with them and don't need them anymore. From diverse revelations and encounters I have had, 99% of such people are not humans, but come as such. The normal human might like you, but if after all done, you reject them, they will feel hurt of course, but once they see someone else they like, they go for them and let you be. That is human nature. These ones are not like that, even if they have 20 girlfriends or 30 boyfriends, they will still be looking for how to catch you to satisfy their lust on you. They are not human. Such men are the ones you must pray hard to escape. Hit the floor now in prayers and ask GOD to deliver you from them. 

Secondly, the other group of men are unstable, weak natured and easily lured by women. They might like you and try to stay faithful to you, but their weakness won't let them. It becomes worse if they are possessed. 

The third group are the genuinely born-again ones, faithful to GOD and walking with HIM. These ones will make good husbands if all other spiritual wisdom for marriage is in place. Mind you, there are also fake believers amongst them. Hit the floor now in prayers and ask GOD to give you this kind of man as a partner. A few things evil men can take advantage of in you to deceive you. 

1. Your gullibility. Some women do not read nor learn anything, they are weak brained. They can't make informed decisions on their own due to lack of understanding, they must always ask around. This is how evil men capture them cheaply. Now, sister in CHRIST, sit down with all my works in this website and other places and learn. Go further, begin to spend time in the Bible and personal fellowship with GOD for spiritual development. Begin to study, begin to learn. Lay your hands on your own head and begin to declare "I receive wisdom from GOD, I will not be misled nor deceived. HOLYSPIRIT baptise me in wisdom". 

2. Spiritual weakness. Grow in GOD, become a spiritual giant lest evil men destroy you. My works and other good works will help. 

3. Bad counsel. Not all counsels are good. This is where you must be careful. Before asking others, ask GOD. Pray that all advice and counsel that will destroy you should not stand in your life, as you hear them they should never run you. Pray that heaven will fill your life with good counsel, tell GOD that is your Will. 

4. If you are not doing anything for GOD in true service to HIM in a specific place where HE put you and not just going there in the flesh, neither do you give to GOD in a sacrificial manner as often as you can or as led, nor sweat or labour for GOD, you might not escape evil men. Such sacrificial acts that must reach GOD for it to work, activate divine mercy for you to deliver you from many destruction, most unseen. The important thing is that these things you do for GOD must be as led and directed by HIM lest you waste your sweat and resources in the wrong place. Always ask HIM in prayers. Go on your knees now and ask GOD to help you make sacrifices for HIM and direct you accurately, tell HIM that is your Will. 

5. Your emotions, watch it. Let it not mislead you. Don't be greedy, look beyond gifts to see the heart of the giver. Hit the floor now in prayers and pray against all evil gifts ever reaching you, this can save you from so many destruction. 

6. Is any man deliberately and desperately coming after you with evil intentions, best you take up your Psalms and pray dangerous prayers against them, unless you do such, they will not turn back. When such make you their target, you must keep your distance from them and make them your constant deadly prayer point in your own interest; if not, they will keep hunting you until they destroy you. Beloved, if you want to end well, it is not everyone you should be nice to, it is not every greeting you respond to; walking in love does not include walking into a trap. In this evil world, if you want to stay safe; it is not everyone you greet nor allow to greet you, some greetings can be laced with evil powers. They might not be greetings, but arrows. Be wise. If they want you destroyed yet always want rapport with you, it is only for one purpose, to get close enough to either kill or destroy you. Flee ! I have seen agents sent to destroy me that I ran from still went about reporting me to people that I don't greet them. That is how crafty they can be. Follow the wisdom of the Psalmist 

Psalms 38:12-15. AMP

They also that seek and demand my life lay snares for me, and they that seek and require my hurt speak crafty and mischievous things; they meditate treachery and deceit all the day long. But I, like a deaf man, hear not; and I am like a dumb man who opens not his mouth. Yes, I have become like a man who hears not, in whose mouth are no arguments or replies. For in You, O Lord, do I hope; You will answer, O Lord my God. 

Hit the floor now and take up all these points in prayers. Take action NOW !

THE BEST MARRIAGE IS MARRIAGE TO A TRULY CALLED BY GOD MAN OF GOD WALKING WITH GOD AND IN ABSOLUTE FAITHFULNESS UNTO HIM. THE SPIRITUAL BENEFITS ARE MANY FOLD. 

The Bible concept of the real woman GOD intended is far from what we have today and far from what many traditions prescribe. One of the terms the Bible used to describe the woman are : "help meet", not dependant, kids are dependants, the wife is an helper. 

Genesis 2:18. NRSV

Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper as his partner.” 

You are a help partner, that makes the core of my message today. You must understand what GOD expected from the foundation of marriage. The proper English is helpmate. Dictionary below 

Helpmate [n.];(also helpmeet): 1. Wife, consort, partner, companion.

2. Partner, helper, associate, aider, help-fellow, companion, assistant. 

We can explore that definition in several angles, but my focus is the spiritual, within the context of ministry. How do you as a wife stand as a formidable helpmate in that context. I believe if true ministers wives can get it right here, probably casualties among ministers will reduce. Firstly, my beloved truly born-again sister, very few in number today amongst many fake (yes, fake outnumber the genuine astronomically), you must pray for GOD to give you a man with a faithful heart, especially faithful to GOD. That is the foundation. If he does not have a faithful heart to GOD, it is only a matter of time, he will destroy both you and him. Once his heart is very faithful to GOD, he has a good chance of standing and surviving. The fall and crash of a man is very extremely damaging, it takes down the whole family. As he crash, the family crash with him. This is so because, in spiritual things, many wives are not strong enough in their personal relationship and fellowship with GOD to the point that if the man crash, they will not go down with him. 99% of men who crash take their wives down with them. If you occupy your place spiritually as a helpmate, he might not crash. There are a few things you must have in your life to be able to stand as a supporting helpmate pillar to your man that can help him weather the wind and storms of life and the attacks that comes in ministry. While other women open their homes to all manner of women coming for their Pastor husbands, I know one who stood up to her man and pulled him away from other women trying to make  road into his life. Let's see a few things a proper spiritual helpmate as a wife must have. 

Though you must submit and honor as a spiritual father, your truly called man of GOD as husband; you must have a strong personal relationship with GOD. Your walk with GOD and ability to hear GOD must be deep enough to ensure you know in the spirit whenever anything is about to go wrong. Many women leave these for their men that until they crash they sense and suspect nothing. A man of GOD was straying into a relationship with an agent posing as a man of GOD. The agent was rich and would have cornered this man to destroy him. Fortunately, this true servant of GOD about to be captured had a wife sensitive to the Spirit of GOD and not carried away by affluence or wealth. She saw everything in the spirit and alerted her husband. She fought and pulled him out of that relationship. That is a real spiritual helpmate. When it comes to ministry, the wife is always one of those the enemy will check out to see if they can use her against her man. Some ministers wives are so weak that they are the very ones the enemy will use to destroy their husbands. Some are even used to push their husbands to terrible mistakes that will destroy them. This is an abnormality. My beloved, you must be so strong spiritually that if the enemy mistakenly attempt to capture you or use you against your husband that is called of GOD, they will meet their Waterloo. The enemy must never capture your man while you are still HIS helpmate. Your positioning in his life is so strategic that the enemy will always want to use you against him. 

• If you are a greedy wife, they will use you.

• If you are the talkative type, they will use you, gather information from you to destroy both you and him. 

• If you are the selfish type, you will not give nor encourage sacrifices unto GOD, you are already captured. They will easily use you to destroy your man.

• If you are the spiritually weak and lazy type, you cannot embark on strategic and regular prayer and Word warfare for your husband and your home, they will capture you and eventually use you to destroy your husband.

• If you are the type that cannot discern between the voice of the enemy and that of GOD, they will mislead you, simple evil programming of your mind and brain and you will be used to push your husband to hell. You have no idea how many ministers wives have been used that way because of their porous brain. 

• If you cannot wage real prayer warfare concerning securing your womb from enemy infiltration of spirits children and make sacrifices unto GOD before getting pregnant, the enemy will put their spirit babies in your womb that you will suck and nurse. The same children that will grow as agents in your home to destroy both you and your husband. They will eventually send the two of you to hell. Some of them will even take over the ministry after both of you are gone. Why not, they are your children !

• If you do not study the scriptures and Gospel books to be sound in the Word, a simple lie will deceive you. You have no idea how many true ministers wives still fall for false prophets. If you are lazy in the Word and you marry a man of GOD, you will crash easily. 

Beloved, you are too strategic in the life of a man of GOD as a wife to be captured. You will be a prime target. Use your strategic positioning for good unto him and ward off adversaries. As the woman of the house, what you forbid in your home in prayers will be forbidden by heaven. Instead of some women to use their spiritual authority thus, they watched until their husbands got captured, brought evil gifts home and they started rejoicing and spending with him. They will be both destroyed. To know the seriousness of this issue, see what will happen to you if they capture your man. 

• Both of you will become possessed, especially if evil gifts enter your home. 

• Your children will be their next target. They too will become possessed since you will pass the gifts to them too or allow them collect evil gifts.

• Evil spirits in you will monitor and record all that happens between you and your husband and what goes on in your home.

• They will use both of you for whatever purpose they wish.

• Your husband will get initiated and probably you too.

• Your husband's spirit will be taken out of his body and imprisoned, another spirit impersonating your husband will replace him. It is called spiritual cloning. You will not suspect.

• Those spirit children in your home posing as your kids will see all but cooperate. They are their buddies. 

• They will proceed to clone you too.

• Your home, including matrimonial room becomes their base of operation.

• Your home will be filled with wealth but strangers using your bodies will be spending them. The spirits will take over all that you have. Your children will call them daddy and mummy.

• They will use both of you to take over the ministry you laboured and sweat over to build.. 

• You will get pregnant again and bear kids for spirit clones in your spouse's body.

• They may push your husband into scandals if they wish.

• They will start using you as their agents to initiate and destroy others.

• They can wreck your marriage, bringing separation, while an agent marries your husband and inherit all you both laboured for.

• They can push you into sexual immorality too.

• Your husband will go into adultery. If you collect marine evil gifts, you will sleep with marine. You cannot enter their net and not sleep with them. 

• They will not crash the ministry, they will only expand it into their own pocket.

• They will marry all your children and you will by your own hands give them out to them in marriage. All your children's glories will be gone. 

• They will ensure you end in hell when you die.

• A flamboyant burial ceremony will follow to cover up. They will keep celebrating you on earth while you will be in hell. 

These will suffice. These are not meant to scare you, but to wake you up. You can avoid all these. These same disasters are sure for anyone not born-again and not walking with CHRIST. Your best defence is Salvation in JESUS. No need for all the above. Once both you and your spouse serve GOD faithfully, walk in obedience unto HIM and make sacrifices for HIM as occasion demands. All will be well. My sister, take note of all the points raised and comply. All will be well.  Best you sit down with all my messages and start developing yourself like mad. Whether married to a man of GOD or not, everyone must be on fire for GOD, anything short of that is a big risk. Sister, now run, GO CATCH FIRE !